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Post by Brittany Bear on Nov 1, 2006 12:52:46 GMT 10
I was really hoping that Xanya was gonna last. I wish they did.
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Post by James on Nov 1, 2006 13:05:58 GMT 10
Me I will. i not liked it when xander left anya at the altar  |
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Post by Brittany Bear on Nov 3, 2006 12:20:56 GMT 10
I know! What nerve of him leaving my fave character at the alter ruining my fave couple!
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Post by Beck on Dec 15, 2006 10:40:52 GMT 10
I think Xander should have ended the engagement before the wedding, but its better he did call it off than if he had gone through with it. He did things very badly, but he was trying to do the right thing by Anya.
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Post by buffymanic on Dec 15, 2006 19:53:58 GMT 10
yep he definately had good intentions but it just took him too long to pluck up the courage to call it off.
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Post by Brittany Bear on Dec 17, 2006 0:58:35 GMT 10
I know he had good intentions but still, that hurt her so bad...
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Post by MissSummers on Jan 8, 2007 7:28:10 GMT 10
I thought they should have stayed together. I loved them together. They grew up well as a couple.
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Post by Brittany Bear on Jan 9, 2007 9:27:19 GMT 10
Yea, they really shoul have stayed togather. They were the longest lasting couple after all.
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Post by Shaun on Jan 9, 2007 9:41:46 GMT 10
Being together for a long time isn't a reason to continue the relationship. Xander was right to cancel the wedding, there is no point in getting married when you have doubts that strong. He chose a bad time to end the wedding, but he didn't mean to end the relationship.
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Post by Brittany Bear on Jan 9, 2007 9:44:27 GMT 10
Yea, you have a point Shaun (cant believe I'm sayin that lol). But, I was just mad about WHEN he chose to call off the wedding. He had doubts ever since All the Way. If he would have told her, maybe things wouldnt have ended badly.
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Post by Shaun on Jan 9, 2007 9:47:34 GMT 10
^ ^ I usually don't have a point?
His timing was shit yeah. But it would have ended worse if he had married her with those doubts. If he had told Anya about them she would have tried to talk him out of them the same as she did in Hell's Bells, and it could still have destroyed the relationship if he had called the wedding off then. Anya would still have taken it badly.
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Post by Brittany Bear on Jan 9, 2007 9:50:07 GMT 10
lol no its just it seems we disagree alot
Yea maybe..... But, i think the only solution was: no proposal!
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Post by Shaun on Jan 9, 2007 10:04:47 GMT 10
The proposal may have been a bad idea in hindsight, but at the time Xander believed he was ready to marry Anya. He may not have thought it through, or the doubts might not have creeped in until later.
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Post by Beck on Jan 9, 2007 10:24:16 GMT 10
I think they should have had a longer engagement. The problem was Xander keeping his doubts to himself, but we know from OMWF that Anya had doubts too. Talking it through might have ended their relationship but it could have made it better too.
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Post by Bre on Jan 9, 2007 15:01:14 GMT 10
Yeah I was suprised that they never got around to talking about their doubts. I would have loved to see their relationship work out. They were one of my favorite couples.
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Post by Allan on Apr 22, 2007 18:43:54 GMT 10
Let's put a slightly different spin on this. After "Chosen", should Anya have survived, do you think the two would have found a way to be together?
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Post by sosalola on Apr 22, 2007 21:56:41 GMT 10
I think they were slowly getting back together in the last few episodes, so maybe if Anya had survived they would.  |
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Post by Laura on Apr 23, 2007 0:50:34 GMT 10
Let's put a slightly different spin on this. After "Chosen", should Anya have survived, do you think the two would have found a way to be together? I honestly don't know. Anya was changing a lot, but I think Xander was too. I think they both were maturing, and maybe after Chosen they could have reached a time when they were both ready for marriage. I just don't know if Anya would take him back after what he did to her. |
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Post by Forsaken on Aug 29, 2007 14:24:30 GMT 10
I'd just like to start out by saying that I more or less don't believe in marriage. However:
I felt at the time that Xander calling off the wedding seemed out of character. Since there has been some explaining that made it alittle more likely but still not quite right. They just seemed so comfortable togeather and when he called it off it came across as just massive cold feet/fear of the unknown/Xander not believing he could be happy married because he'd never seen his adult "roll models" happy in a marrige.
I'd like to think Anya and Xander could get back togeather if she'd survived but Anya really did need to learn to be a person before she lived as a couple.
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